Saturday, May 3, 2008

Memories from the Jar - Laundry?!?

Okay, so I've been digging through my jar, pulling out strips of paper one by one and hoping that one of them will spark my desire to want to write. No such luck. Either I'm just not in the right mood for it, or I hit a streak of bad paper slips. Anyway, I finally found one that I can write something about, though I'll warn you, it's a little random. The slip of paper says this:

"Tell about a frustrating experience you have had with doing the laundry."

Is it just me or does that one seem a little out in left field somewhere? Anyway. I can actually think of a couple of interesting things to say about this...

If I had to bring it down to one frustrating experience, I'd have to say it was the time that we couldn't find our cell phone anywhere, and I opened up the washer to discover that Cole had deposited it there, and that I had not noticed before I ran a load of clothes. Bye bye cell phone! That was a real bummer.

Laundry has been one area where Brian and I have had to take some time to compromise and figure out what we need from each other. I used to be terrible about getting laundry as far as the dryer and then just letting it sit in a laundry basket until I needed it. Brian would understandably get frustrated with the wrinkly shirts he pulled out of the "clean clothes" pile, and so with time I have learned to at least pull the clothes out of the dryer as soon as they're dry and lay them out flat in a stack on the bed until I get time to hang them in the closet. Unfortunately, most of the time I still don't get that time until we drag into our room at night, ready to collapse into bed, to discover that our bed is covered with nice, unwrinkled piles of clothing waiting to be hung. I think that is one thing Brian dreads more than almost any other, and I don't like it either... Sometimes we succumb to our laziness and move the whole stack of shirts over to the cedar chest, thinking we'll take care of it tomorrow...but then at least the wrinkle problem is averted. The joy of laundry...

In a more general sense, though, I've got to say that laundry is really, most of the time, a frustrating experience. It never goes away!! I can think I've washed every stitch of dirty clothing in the house, but before it is humanly possible to get it all put away, more laundry has been created. And so it goes with cleaning the house, doing the dishes, weeding the garden, keeping the kids clean and fed, and really every part of life. I need to learn how to just enjoy the ride rather than thinking that someday I will arrive at that place where my house stays clean, the laundry stays done, and life is peaceful and orderly. I've just gotta let go. :)

6 comments:

Tam said...

So, so true!!!

korth fam said...

AMEN TO THAT!! Hey Hansen's we blog stalked you through the tullis's and then through the carpenter's blogs. I'm terrible with laundry, perhaps I will have to try that laying it on the bed trick, I know it will just end up on a chair before bed though:) hooray for having a dryer and a wet wash clothe!

Beam Family said...

I am just like you, Karene. It's such a task to be done that I don't enjoy the experience very often. How do we enjoy it more because we have alot of years of mundane tasks ahead of us!!!

Josh and Leslie said...

Hey Karene! How are you? It has been way too long! Just wanted to say hi and see how you are these days! Cute kids!!

Relle said...

I think you might be amused to know that my two most frustrating laundry experiences were caused by your own dear Brian! Both occured when he was between the ages of two and four:

The first one was when he decided to do the laundry for me. (This was also very cute in hindsight) He threw every last scrap of laundry, no matter what color, into the laundry sink. (I guess the washer controls were out of reach, but he often used the tap on the laundry sink to wash his hands.) He then proceeded to fill the sink with water to the very brim. It made it spill over just to reach in and pull the plug! Many of the items were waiting for pre-treatment, so the stains were set, and it didn't help that some of the items were red in color!

The second thing he did involved the dryer: he threw a black crayon into it and I didn't discover it until I got out the next batch of clothes.(This discovery was made just as the doorbell rang and it was a rare visit from Uncle Garth and Florence, so I had to defer my distress.
Naturally those clothes were beyond help (I tried everything) but the worst was cleaning black off of every crevice of the dryer drum! When asked why, he just said he was curious to know what would happen.

But Bri was so adorable it was always hard to stay miffed at him for long!

Anonymous said...

I don't remember either of these events, but I do remember some residual black marks on the dryer. I guess I shouldn't get so mad at Cole when he dumps all of our hand soap in the sink.